Sunday, February 18, 2007
Reason #7: Raise the meaning of education
Notice the photo, taken by me in Southern France, as my class enters the walled city of Carcassonne. We were on a four-day field trip. We were required to connect history to the present, to experience what we were learning, and to put it in a context that carried meaning into our future.
Military families have the opportunity to expose their children to the best resources in education. Education is paramount in all branches of the military, and anyone who takes advantage of the many resources offered, is rewarded with rank and responsibility.
Children can learn much more that is truly valuable than what they are exposed to in schools today. Of course, in DoDEA schools, parents are expected to be involved in their children's school activities. The best education I received during all my years of studying, including earning a masters degree at an Ivy League school, were the two years I attended a DoDEA school in France.
Anyone who wants the best for their children would be advised to consider a military family life that exposes the children to the DoDEA system throughout their education.
My thoughts for today.
Sheila Witherington
Sunday, August 27, 2006
Reason #6: Observe community and personal discipline
Once we were parked in the lot to wait for my dad, she explained to me that we could not throw any type of paper or trash on the ground on the base or else my dad would be out picking up trash for hours as a punishment.
Why would he have to pick up trash, if I was the one who threw it out? I wanted to know.
She explained that in the eyes of the military, my dad was responsible for what he and his family did, and it was his responsibility to ensure that his entire family knew the rules of conduct and obeyed them. Otherwise, she said, he would be the one who would be punished.
"Oh, okay," was my immediate response, and I hoped that nobody saw me throw the paper out of the window. I did not throw paper or trash out of the window again, and the lesson stayed with me forever.
Even moreso, as I grew older and was in late elementary school in Chateauroux, France, I learned more about how this military family discipline thing worked. The story was among us youngters was as follows, whether true or not: Since we attended American government schools, we believed that the chain of command for our discipline took a different route than in public schools in the states. The first call for discipline problems in the classroom went to the parent's commanding officer, who in turn, summoned the military parent to inquire as to why there might be a discipline problem in that family. None of us children wanted to go home to find out the our parent had been chewed out by the commanding officer because of something we had done at school.
I have no idea if that process was indeed official or not, but perception was paramount. We believed it to be true, and it worked. Discipline and respect for rules of conduct, standard operating procedures, and cooperation were instilled early in life.
It's good to learn that sort of discipline and how the box of community is established. That way, when we want to think or act outside the box, we know exactly what we are doing.
My thoughts for today.
Sheila Witherington
Sunday, May 14, 2006
Reason #5: Expand food horizons
Even living in different parts of the U.S. exposes children to different cuisine. That's a good thing. From purple hull peas and cornbread to South Philly cheesesteaks.
My thoughts for today.
Sheila Witherington
Tuesday, December 13, 2005
Reason #4: Learn new languages out of necessity.
This is a photo of me, Sheila Witherington, when I was 9 years old and on a class trip to southern France. I had asked a friend of mine to take a photo of me, and one of the French boys, Phillip, on the trip stepped in front of the camera at the moment. Needless to say, a young girl has to learn to speak the native language at such exasperating moments. Growing up in the military provides many opportunities for children and families to learn new language skills as the families are stationed at various locations around the world. I believe the other boy in the photo is Eddie Scott, an American boy in my bilingual class at Touvent Elementary School in Chateauroux, France. As kids, we went on a class trip for four days and nights to southern France. In school, we studied with French students two days a week. One day the French kids would come to our school, and another day we would go to the French school. We each had French partners and were encouraged to exchange visits with their families outside school. What a wonderful experience. We lived in France for two years. What a wonderful way to raise a family.
My thoughts for today.
Sheila Witherington
Saturday, December 03, 2005
Reason #3: Make lifelong friends around the world.
My thoughts for today.
Sheila Witherington
Tuesday, November 29, 2005
Reason #2: Experience the World...literally.
My thoughts for today.
Sheila Witherington
Thursday, November 10, 2005
Reason #1: Build Amazing Extended Military Family
Growing up in a military family means living among a community of other military families who bond and create a unique type of environment. Neighbors living in military housing are much more open to getting to know each other and helping each other. U.S. military bases offer families a wide variety of recreation, educational, and spiritual types of activities. Pictured at left is a group of women in military families singing hymns around the piano in our home when we were stationed in Chateauroux, France when I was a child. I knew that any of these women and many others helped look after me and considered me to be a part of their extended family. In the military family community, there is a strong bond that last over lifetimes, even though families move periodically to different areas.
My thoughts for today.
Sheila Witherington